You Wish

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Date Joined: July 2007
Location: State Of Euphoria
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  • Jules Jordan Devotional Thread - It's About Time! 6/24/2010 3:26:41 PM
    Hey Jules, were you looking for me to do lunch a few weeks back? On a Sunday right after the Miami Expo, me and my husband went to my local Supermarket on Route 309 in Pennsylvania, and lo and behold I see this guy pass right by me in the parking lot driving a Mercedes with California plates. At first I thought it was Vanilla Ice or some Vanilla Ice wannabe with the hat turned sideways and slinking down behind the wheel. But at closer look, I say to myself.. Self.. that looks a whole lot like Jules Jordan. What on earth would he be doing in my neighborhood? Jules was that you? Were you coming to take me to lunch?
  • Shelley Lubben who is she and what is her problem 6/24/2010 3:01:03 PM
    screwcap wrote: Idk nothin 'bout her. Perhaps that's a good thing. I suspect before it's all said and done you'll know all about her. She has hit a nerve with the porn industry.
  • Shelley Lubben who is she and what is her problem 6/23/2010 11:56:27 AM
    [/quote] Support her cause, if you care about women. Maybe one day in utopia, young women will stop sacrificing their bodies and dignity to the machine, and subsequently, men will stop seeing them and their reality as expendable figments of their imagination and fantasy who's sole purpose is to get them off. It's not likely. But I'm with her, more than I'm against her. However, her approach involving Christianity will never go over well with the instinctive need to rebel against a preconceived idea of decency. You can't shame people with god anymore. You've got to shame them with something they can see. Real stories, real victims, and real negative change. Something to truly be ashamed of. Edited by - echoplex on 6/18/2010 11:51:59 PM [/quo...
  • Porn Industry Running Scared? Secret meetings? 6/2/2010 7:29:50 PM
    So, if you are in the business for so long, why so mysterious? Howard doesn't hide his identity or connections, neither does Pornlaw, neither do I. This kind of anonymous posting implies one of two possibilities to me: either you are in the industry for real and you have some personal agenda or gripe or you are not in the industry at all (or maybe only slightly, as in workign for a retailer) and are 'embellishing', to say it politely. Jacco [/quote] No mysteries here. I prefer to stay private in this day and age of internet wackos .. Why are my observations and experiences so threatening? You have your opinions and I have mine. Lets discuss them... Yes I do have a gripe... isn't that clear? Geez... Embelishing? Honey... I'm practicing restr...
  • Porn Industry Running Scared? Secret meetings? 6/2/2010 5:20:25 PM
    Hollywood : I have no agenda other than my opinions and experiences. I never said I have met "hundreds" of girls. Those are your words, not mine. I have talked with a lot on very personal and revealing levels... lets keep it there. But I will say this... You would be very surprised to know what I know and whom. Heck I even know some of your story Hollywood, and yes we have met and spoken. Hmm maybe we even had lunch one time when I was with a friend over at Irv's deli? You are a funny and charming guy.. I will say that. I personally have been friends with former and current employees over at AVN and other publications and blogs. Yes, I know a few directors and company owners who are great people. I have been on some porn sets out...
  • Porn Industry Running Scared? Secret meetings? 6/2/2010 4:13:52 PM
    Gore Gore Girl wrote: fu_q wrote: ^Do you sell and/or profit off of porn that doesn't involve condom use? Just bumping a question... I posed two different arguments in other threads (maybe this one) that You Wish completely ignored. I wasn't even saying "you're completely wrong" -- I was trying to instigate a dialogue. After the second response was ignored, I realised she is not interested in dialogue, which I find to be sincerely depressing. A lot of these issues are incredibly important, and I think a lot of us could identify with some of the points being made by You Wish. The rhetoric, however, as well as the refusal to engage in a level manner makes identification near impossible. I would like to know the answer to fu_q's que...
  • Porn Industry Running Scared? Secret meetings? 6/2/2010 2:55:58 PM
    Flash wrote: MOD: Judging from the above post portions, you aren't a fan of adult movies, yet you come in contact with enough actresses to form these opinions, which indicates that you are somehow connected to the industry so I'm going to take the time to remind you of this portion of the <link> . I have stated my connections to the adult biz in many other threads. Hmmm maybe not this one. I have worked for for both a distributor and retail for close to 20 years. I have had many private one on one conversations with porn girls, directors, company owners, other distributors etc... I personally know what this business is all about... the good, the bad, and the ugly... You learn a lot of things along the way...
  • Porn Industry Running Scared? Secret meetings? 6/2/2010 2:00:38 PM
    pornlaw wrote: Again I ask - for the third time -- what is your interest in this matter ? Why do you keep avoiding the question ? My only interest is from a Mothers perspective and as moral human who believes in Karma and &quot;Natural Law&quot;. Not to be confused with a religious perspective. I am not religious and I do believe in free speech... not exploitation of our children... I am not against erotica.. most porn nowadays doesn't even remotely resemble erotica. It's a bunch of overgrown juvenile delinquents running around with video cameras exploiting and abusing young women. I have said it before... I have no horse in this race. I do not have any affiliation with AHF or Shelley Lubben or any one else. I think the porn industry in i...
  • Porn Industry Running Scared? Secret meetings? 6/2/2010 12:37:51 PM
    pornlaw wrote: Ahhh... now you show your face. Thank you. No I got my training through hours of research, medical classes, cross examining experts and handling medically complicated lawsuits through-out my career. You do realize attorneys have to be trained in medical sciences in order to handle complex medical issues. I have represented hospitals and have defended several HIV transmission cases, as well as other communicable disease transmission cases. How Darren got HIV, only Darren knows. And I will not speculate about it here. You do realize he was shooting in Brazil and Canada prior to testing positive in the US. I am not here to defend the industry, I do agree that they way the industry polices itself and handles safety and perform...
  • Porn Industry Running Scared? Secret meetings? 6/1/2010 11:46:15 AM
    pornlaw wrote: If the industry cut back on anal and especially anal with exceptionally large male performers that could rip a female performer, we could make the possibility of transmission almost non-existent. Edited by - pornlaw on 6/1/2010 12:44:25 AM Clap, clap.. I would expect nothing less from a guy who makes his money from an industry that contains some really scummy and unethical people. People who only care about lining there pockets... Not everyone, but I venture to say the majority. Tell this BS to Darren James and every other HIV+ performer... not to mention every performer who will live the rest of their lives fighting herpes outbreaks. Herpes and other std's are rampant. How about giving us the &quot;to date&quot; total of ST...
  • Porn Industry Running Scared? Secret meetings? 5/30/2010 9:34:01 AM
    ^^^^ To Random Precision: I'm sorry but your argument is ridiculous and misguided... We are discussing WORKPLACE HEALTH and SAFETY... not someones right to be stupid in a free society... The government has a vested interest in the workplace, and all Americans have the right to a safe work environment. People don't work on the Golden gate bridge without proper safety equipment, and neither do medical professionals who come in contact with blood born pathogens every day, just like the porn performers do every day... You rabid porn fans are all so willing to put someone else's health and life at risk for the sake of your porn &quot;fix&quot;. This is what really enrages me about the guys and the porn companies who think like you... Out of the ...
  • Porn Industry Running Scared? Secret meetings? 5/28/2010 11:07:47 AM
    Here is the actual date and time for the advisory board meeting. It has been added to the article... Tuesday, June 29, 2010, at the Cal/Trans Building at 100 S. Main Street, Room 1.040 A, Los Angeles, from 10 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. After reading this article... I urge any performer concerned about their health and future to step up and let your voice be heard. Ask any of the HIV+ performers what the adult biz did for them after they were infected on the job? The porn companies are getting rich off of you and only want to line their pockets... It is quite obvious that they don't care about you... The bus door opened and a loud voice was heard saying &quot;NEXT!&quot;.
  • Do you think sick porn is good for the biz? 5/27/2010 11:16:23 AM
    AsianAnalPantyhoserGuy wrote: Jules Jordan won awards for grainy, colorless videos, and Extreme Productions pushed all kinds of inflammatory garbage. Bi-sexual men with shallow gene-pools were more than happy to take their issues out on the viewer via the woman they were degrading in the films. Stepping on a woman's head became progressively trendy. Companies are more concerned with being &quot;evil&quot;. Companies took names like Combat Zone, Mercenary Productions, or Lethal Hardcore in an effort to switch from sexy to hostile. MILF, tranny, glory-hole, daddy fucking daughter, mother and daughter porn, big mean black guy invades your house and rapes your son...I wonder where it's going and why. I wonder if it sells, or if it's just good...
  • Do you think sick porn is good for the biz? 5/26/2010 2:10:08 PM
    [/quote] I'm both for and against the idustry. From a standpoint of someone who enjoys seeing this, that, and the other, indulging on twisted perversions and pleasure myself to them, I'm for the industry. From the standpoint of someone who has thoroughly researched, studied, debated this, what you say I've branded as &quot;black and white&quot;, from both a sociological and economic perspective.... &quot;morally&quot;, there is no chance in hell I could get behind the industry, or say I support what it does. That's the thing. Let's not be hypocritical here; if you take pleasure in it, if you support this industry, don't pretend to have any sort of moral standing. You don't, it's BS. Admit you're a degenerate who doesn't give a shit, and en...
  • Shelley Lubben who is she and what is her problem 5/22/2010 6:35:57 PM
    T0MBOne wrote: YOU WISH has made a distinction between gonzo and the other types of pornography and chooses not to sell this form of adult entertainment for reasons that many of us would agree with. So what's the big deal? Thank you... I was ready to beat my head against the wall! lol. I don't know what part of the English language they didn't understand... BTW- Sorry for the &quot;Honey&quot; usage... I am used to dealing with my 8 year old. Hmmm.... maybe I need to keep on using it? Just kidding, don't get your jockstraps in a knot...
  • Shelley Lubben who is she and what is her problem 5/21/2010 2:51:15 PM
    [/quote] Puh leeeze! I find it amusing that you're trying to pass yourself off as a do gooder and savior to the girls, when you deal in the very product that these &quot;broken toys&quot; star in. Just because you deal in non gonzo porn and operate a story that isn't a &quot;jerk off pit&quot; doesn't change the fact that you are selling porn. When you say &quot;The gonzo porn companies blow sunshine and smoke up your asses so your money keeps on making their payments&quot; you could easily subsitute &quot;The gonzo porn companies&quot; and &quot;making their payments&quot; with &quot;I'm trying to&quot; and &quot;making my payments.&quot; As far as these girls being &quot;broken toys&quot; and &quot;ripe for the picking&quot; maybe in a fe...
  • Shelley Lubben who is she and what is her problem 5/21/2010 11:40:26 AM
    [/quote] Last time I heard, couples porn is still the same exact people having sex for the camera, just with a softer focus and maybe not 15 guys on 1 girl. [/quote] Honey... If you don't know the difference between eroticism and degrading porn, than I am wasting my valuable time even giving you an answer... Last time I heard, couples porn (to use your words...) or eroticism as I call it... doesn't involve violence, degradation or humiliation against women. Eroticism celebrates and enhances ones sexuality and is an &quot;equals&quot; shared event between people who love or at least care for each other on some level... Gonzo porn generally shows total disdain for young women... The girls that I've had extensive conversations with know that...
  • Shelley Lubben who is she and what is her problem 5/20/2010 9:31:26 AM
    Don't try to paint me something that I am not... I certainly am not anti-sex or anti-porn... if that is what you choose to call it. I am pro sex and pro eroticism, which certainly can enhance already healthy relationships. I like the movies from Wicked, Digital Playground, Vivid and Private to name few. These are classy companies. I am anti abuse of young women by a select group of misogynistic middle aged and old men who prey on young vulnerable women. There are plenty of them in the business. That is a fact... My comments are not directed at every porn company out there. What I am against is violence and degradation of girls for someones viewing pleasure. Gonzo companies seem to be the biggest offenders in that regard. There are companies...
  • Shelley Lubben who is she and what is her problem 5/19/2010 10:01:43 PM
    [/quote] And you know this because you with or for who in the industry? You're just another ignorant shit talker. End of story. [/quote] Honey... I know this because I have been working in the adult Industry for almost 20 years now. I attend all the conventions for my job, I have been on porn shoots, I talk to porn people on a daily basis. I have booked and featured countless porn girls in my stores... I have had in depth and soul searching conversations with many of these girls. I have traveled for years in porn circles and have met these people first hand... Yep I have met some good people who have integrity in the porn business.. but they are few and far between. Ya want a couple of examples? I sat in the office of one well know scumba...
  • The lack of info about a2m is strange 5/19/2010 9:18:41 PM
    Obviously, the mouth has some defense against foreign bacteria, since some get in there every day in the normal course of events. However, no doctor is going to encourage you to increase your odds of getting a disease. The real problem is swallowing anything that contains e-coli - you know, food poisoning. Well, open sores in the mouth wouldn't be good, either, but hopefully performers are already aware of that. Foreign bacteria is just the start... ATM isn't really safe under any circumstances, unless you carry around a microscope and a &quot;Petri Dish&quot;. The rectum contains bacteria, viruses and parasites... Go to work and lick your bosses asshole everyday and than get back to me how long you stay at that job... Porn fans try to ju...
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