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• Ladies: Are We Men Overly Influenced by Porn? 8/29/2006 7:38:36 PM
  
  Thanks, all, for the interesting replies to my query. BSD...I think you've most eloquently addressed the subject...very well written. Your arguments and observations are most convincing and I have to say I am in total agreement with you. In other words, I now do believe that for this particular act anyway, porn has influenced a great deal of males (including this one) to think of a facial as a "brain-exploding" (to use your wonderfully expressive term) erotic event. BTW, and just for the record, when Id used the term, "facial", I definitely did NOT mean the act of the guy masturbating and then aiming the results of the orgasm at a lady's face. As far as porn is concerned, I too find such scenes incredibly boring and d...

• Ladies: Are We Men Overly Influenced by Porn? 8/27/2006 3:35:48 PM
  
  Steph wrote: I have never been with or been friends with (the kind of friends where you talk about sex) a guy who found giving facials erotic. Some may have liked to watch them in porn. But all preferred to come inside - or if we stick to porntalk they preferred cream pies. Really? Considering that the facial is one of the most common acts in porn made to appeal to the heterosexual male, I find that extremely unusual. Just a quck read through the scads of posts on this site, or of the porn titles out there, and it's overwhelmingly apparent that most men find it erotic. Sure there are the creampie videos, but they are in the minority. By the way, I'm well past your age, so I'm not sure there's any generation correlation there. In fact, it ...

• Ladies: Are We Men Overly Influenced by Porn? 8/27/2006 2:33:33 PM
  
  Steph & Lindi... You've both stated my lady's case better than I was able to relay it. Your points are the very one's she makes. But the bottom line is, whether it was the chicken or the egg that came first, doesn't really matter...I, and I assume most men in our western culture, find specific things such as the facial to be highly erotic. As such, it is part of our sexual repertoire (as has been with a good number of my previous relationships), but there are times when she too finds it somewhat funny and has difficulty staying "in the moment". Your comments give support to the idea that the porn starlets we see begging the guy to cum on her face is just what porn is about, and that is, sexual fantasy. While many women do in fa...

• Ladies: Are We Men Overly Influenced by Porn? 8/26/2006 11:59:08 PM
  
  I was wondering if any of you ladies out there think that too much of what we men would like to have happen during sex is overly influenced by the porn we watch. If so, is it to the point where it annoys you and wish your guy wouldn't watch some of it and bring the ideas into the bedroom? The reason I ask is that whenever I ask my significant other to let me splash a bit of my cum on her chin and cheek, she thinks it's mainly because I've been conditioned to think that it's sexy by "all that porn you watch on the internet". When I try and tell her that it is porn (art?) that's imitating life and not the other way around, she won't listen. She's a sharp attorney who can make some pretty persuasive arguments; so much so that I've ...