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• OMG.......Guess what is real!?!??!?!!? 6/8/2006 12:55 AM
  
  WOW! here it has been almost 2 years and suddenly I see this topic up again......Congrats Pagoda! Oh what a feeling huh?!?!!??

• G spot toy suggestions? 1/9/2006 7:19:44 PM
  
  Thanks so much for all the info and links....I have a rock chick on order and can hardly wait....lol thanks again!!!

• boob job scars 4/7/2005 1:11 AM
  
  "I clutch my chest when I see anything that makes me think of my boobs being sliced with a scalpel. The mere thought of surgery makes me nauseous. Perhaps I'm just a wimp." I am part of that "wimp" club with you Steph.....different sizes are part of what makes every woman unique and beautiful

• Alcohol + Sex 4/7/2005 12:53 AM
  
  Now I know that this question was directed at the guys in here, but.......since this just happened to me I thought it might be relavent/interesting as well. I had some friends over last week and I had a couple of drinks. I was no where near drunk so when everyone went home I got out my fave toy and thought I would have a little fun......OR NOT!!!! 45 minutes, three sets of batteries and 4 toys later, I finally had to admit defeat. I have never had that happen before!!! Usually I can go from 0 - 60 in about 3 minutes, roll over and have a great sleep. The alcohol was letting me get incredibly aroused.....with no release in sight...lol I learned a lesson....the hard way!!!

• Female Ejaculation: emotion-based? [?] 3/16/2005 2:05 PM
  
  I too have been and am still skeptical of those "gushers" shown in some porn flicks but.......and this is a big but.....I have experienced the pleasure of female ejaculation for myself.....on several occasions....and look forward to experiencing it again soon. As to whether I think that it is linked to an emotion......I am going to have to say...no. I can masturbate myself to a lovely squirting orgasm so although I do "love" myself, that is not the driving force, or should I say "liberating" force behind squirting. I am in a long-term relationship with a man who has assisted me in really get in touch with myself and to become comfortable with my needs and desires. This in turn has led me to experience sex as ...

• Circumcised Men: Is Ignorance Bliss? 3/2/2005 6:20 PM
  
  "this barbaric and totally unnecessary procedure. And with at least 60 percent of males in the U.S. having been mutilated in this fashion" Just a few key words here I think......barbaric, unnecessary, and mutilated.. How any loving parent can subject their perfect, healthy baby boy to this procedure is beyond my comprehension.....if it becomes a medical necessity or an operation of choice later in life, so be it. At least then some form of anesthetic is used.....but to strap down or pin down these babies and cut off living, healthy flesh and to claim that it doesn't hurt as they scream .......just don't get it!!!!! Add to that lovely mental image that I just left you with, the fact that I am now with the first un-cut man in my ...

• Female expression of sexual gratitude 3/2/2005 5:57 PM
  
  "if a guy moans, does that make him a better fuck than a guy who doesn't?" I have to admit that I love to hear my man moan......it means that I am doing something REALLY right!!! A little encouragement goes a long way to making him "a better fuck" as you put it MASAMUNE.....lol

• How to get a girl to do A2M 1/6/2005 10:35 PM
  
  Hmmmmm.....I have just sat here and read all 4 pages.....twice.....and although I do consider myself up for pretty much anything, I just do not understand WHY this activity is such a "turn on" for some men. Aside from all the arguments about hygiene, health, preparation etc., I really would like to know what is so erotic about it.....What is it about the thought/sight of someone licking their own feces off of your cock that is so arousing?? Please do not think that I am asking this to be argumentative or prudish...I really would like to know what I may be missing/not getting about ATM. My current thoughts about this are just too naive to be posted here and I am hoping that someone can shed some light on this one for me?!!? If this...

• Do women prefer no condoms too?? (in real life) 1/3/2005 4:35 PM
  
  Sad world we live in..... to have to both have blood tests to be able to have natural sex, but that is the way it is!! I am now in a long term relationship, we are both "clean", and I have had surgery to ensure no kids....so the sex is "au naturel" and great!!! About the only time in the past when I can say with certainty that I felt any difference between a condom cloaked cock and a naked cock was if the guy was uncut, then the difference is very noticeable and more pleasureable without. Otherwise, as long as the slipptivity was there, it was the same.

• G Spot locating 1/3/2005 4:20 PM
  
  As long as you are having fun JamesRaven....lol I am glad that I was not the only one turned on by what I wrote....I had to go "entertain" myself after that one.....good luck on your quest for more info.

• G Spot locating 1/2/2005 11:11 PM
  
  First let me say that I think it is great that you are asking about the g-spot location and the preferred methods of stimulating it!!! What a lovely experience to have a lover who can get a woman to that orgasm.....we women really should get to know our own g-spots first and then just share the info with our lovers. I finally took an afternoon, shut off the phone, locked the doors, and......explored shall we say. I first masturbated my usual way to a couple of orgasms and then went internal on a quest to map my own g-spot location. I was armed with some on-line articles from clitical.com, some lube, a mirror, and my own two fingers. I now know that my g-spot is rather large, but more sensitive to pressure about 2 inches in, up, and slightly...

• okay, a question for those who shave themselves 12/5/2004 10:21 PM
  
  Do I ever know what you are going thru!!!! I did the exact same thing....got brave/stupid with the razor and ended up with nothing left. And did I ever pay for it....tried every cream on the market....was about to resort to pulling the itchy bastards out when I saw an ad for laser hair removal....not cheap, but it stopped the itch immediately and I love the feel of all that lovely smooth skin....I have spent the last year completing the process I began with my razor and now am hair free.....and $850.00 poorer too...lol it is worth it when it is all said and done though My boyfriend loves it too btw

• laser hair removal. anyone try it? 9/27/2004 11:06 PM
  
  I have gone the laser removal route and although I love the effect, I am not so sure about the effectivness/permenancy of it. I had great results on the underarm area, not so great on my bikini area. It definitely got rid of the itch and in-grown hairs from shaving, but once I started I liked it so much that I got it ALL removed and am now finding that it just won't stay gone. Call it hormonally driven hair re-growth or what! It is still worth it though....both me and my b/f love that silky smooth skin that is revealed when all that hair is removed. It sure makes oral sex more fun for both of us!!!! As for pain....take a couple of ibuprofen prior to your session and then as long as you get the cold roller applied right there is virtually no...

• tickle the prostate? 9/9/2004 9:47 PM
  
  What a coincidence.......I just had the privilege of tickling my man's fancy just three nights ago....it was the first for him. We have been together for over three years now and we really enjoy a healthy and fun sex life. It just keeps getting more and more fun....Anyways.....I have this really unpretentious little toy that is about the size of my finger and has a lovely vibe to it as well. We had been tossing the idea about for a while and he just decided to trust me, experiment a little and see what it was all about. We came up with a position that satisfied both of us and allowed me access to his anus.......me on top, facing his toes.......well.....After riding him to three of my own orgasms, I decided that it was time to tickle that pr...

• Out of interest...... 8/20/2004 1:14 AM
  
  been single...then married for almost 9 years.....then single again.....am currently with a great man that i thought was sooooo cute all those years ago in high school...lol what never ceases to amaze me is that even after my ex-husband lied and cheated on me, I trust this man with my life......makes you wonder what would have been if we had hooked up sooner!?!? ah well.....we are making up for lost time now!!!! trust does interesting things to the sex life too.....never knew it could be this good...

• How many inches of penetration is preferred? 8/19/2004 11:14 PM
  
  I agree with the average for prefferred length.......6 - 6 1/2inches is just fine for me.....can get a bit more out of it by changing angles if I want it and a slight curve to his left is a definite bonus......that would be the super sensitve second g-spot hitter for me!!!!! Any more and care must be taken not to cause discomfort and that takes a lot of the fun out of it.....my man hits all the right spots with that lovely curve of his!!!!!!!

• Cottage Cheese / Yeast Infection 7/25/2004 2:39 PM
  
  OK guys, your comments here are the reason a lot of women have a, shall we say, negative attitude towards oral sex. Ewww... I was disgusted That's just nasty. Shit happens, oftentimes it is caused by our men! And trust me, if she indeed does have a yeast infection, sex is the last thing she wants! The itching and burning are bad enough without adding to it!! Now I do not expect men to actually like it but must you make us feel bad about something we can't control?? It is a part of having a pussy.....it is easily treated........life goes on......smegma happens too

• Masturbation techniques? 7/22/2004 1:23 AM
  
  Hmmmmm......the original post did ask for info from both sexes and I have not seen anything from the ladies yet.....are we shy on this topic or just not interested?? I am not too shy and am very interested so here goes...... You have it right abradarba, The physical part of wanking is so not an issue compared to the mind fuck The mental stimulus varies from a reading particularly good erotica, watching a good fuck scene, or the best is simply to recall the last time my bf and I had sex. A stratgically placed pillow is also required, although I have had to use other things, like a rolled up coat. Just so long as I have something to get a hold of, squeeze and grind.........My current "toy of the week" is a real booster to the over-a...

• How should I do it? 7/15/2004 1:07 AM
  
  I believe that the best tool a lover can use is....communication!!!! and talking about sex can be soooo stimulating. Engage the primary sex organ (the brain) prior to engaging your genitals and things will be much better. It is like trying to start out in 3rd gear rather than 1st......pretty hard to do and usually pretty rough. Ellis had a good point there.....do your homework, know what you are working with and where to find what. I read the Hite Reports and learned soooo much that I did not know about my own anatomy. I am not saying that you have to know how to dismantle and rebuild a motor before you can drive a car, but it does help to know where the gas and brake pedals are.....lol

• A womans moaning. 7/8/2004 1:04 AM
  
  I always thought that I was pretty quiet during sex, but......with my current bf, the sex is so good that I can't always contain myself. I am often unaware of the sounds that I make until he tells me later.....I am just glad that it turns him on....makes me blush but "Oh well"