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• help with new girlfriend 9/15/2007 1:00:43 AM
  
  Thanks Dark Angel, it sounds like you really were sensible in your approach to your wife. Appreciate your feedback..I will look into the nina hartley videos and watch them together with her. And thanks Lindi too. It's funny because i have been curling my fingers up since i always thought this was the g-spot area etc...and she says that it feels really good too, so she likes it when i do it, but i think it borders on uncomfortable pressure/feeling really really good. So i guess i just wanted to know if its because sheis holding etc. She explained to me last night actually that she wants to "let go" but it is really hard for her to let it go. I just want to understand more what that means i guess and how she can let go if she wants ...

• help with new girlfriend 9/12/2007 5:33:13 AM
  
  thanks darkangel... appreciate the feedback. I will look into your suggestions. May i ask how old your current wife was when you first started going out? Have you found the sex has just gotten better and better as you learned from each other?

• help with new girlfriend 9/10/2007 5:59:40 AM
  
  Hi guys...looking for some intelligent advice here.. Started a new relationship with a girl, together about 2 and a half months. I have come from a relationship of a few years, while this will be her first 'serious' relationship for her. The slight problem has been in the bedroom...she is a virgin, oral sex shes had, but not penetration. She is really keen to get into it all with me and we have started having oral sex etc...but she gets nervous that she doesn't know what to do. Its a little hard for me as i have come from a girl who gave the best oral sex ive encountered. I am totally patient and dont want to push anything, just wondering what a good approach would be to help her make it feel nice etc.. The other problem is when im fingerin...

• recommendation of a sex toy for girlfriend 2/16/2007 11:36:02 PM
  
  thanksguys for the continued responses... I think i will look into the pocket rocket as it seems like most people recommend it, shes back from overseas so it mite be fun to try together...but i feel like it's probly something that she needs to by herself (go and buy the actual vibrator). I don't want to seem pushy etc by encouraging her to get one...or others have any advice on that front/?? Cos my current thought is that if she is prepared to get it herself, it shows a level of comfort etc with it all.... Have people had much experience with using a vibrator at the same time as penetration?? Thanks again everyone

• recommendation of a sex toy for girlfriend 1/20/2007 5:15:07 AM
  
  thanks or more replies guys... Yes lindi what u say there sounds really wise, i don't want to pressure her at all to masturbate, it's something she has to do off her own bat for sure. I have sent her little articles on the net, including the one you linked there Lindi, see how it all goes. She is so busy though that she said lately sex, masturbation etc hasn't even come into her head at all... i don't know if she has a low sex drive etc, or just that when your that busy it really just doesnt come into mind...or body hahaha. RandomPrecision : she isn't uncomfortable with sex, and increasingly over the time we have been together i feel she has been more comfortable, which i guess is normal. We have experimented with different things toge...

• recommendation of a sex toy for girlfriend 1/14/2007 12:31:14 AM
  
  jayo - for sure this is something i would like to experience with her, but she wont be back in my country for another month, and this i guess was a good oppurtunity for her to find it all for herself.. but that is a great suggestion for when she gets back. And thank u Krista K, do u yourself have a pocket rocket?? And a question to everyone here, was it a huge leap of courage to try a toy for the first time? and was it one that took a while to become comfortable with?

• recommendation of a sex toy for girlfriend 1/14/2007 12:27:32 AM
  
  thanks for all the replies... Lindi, i think her current line of thought is that she can't get herself to orgasm, hence wanting to give a toy a try...though she hasn't tried many times. Maybe she needs to stick with it for a while? Is it normal that girls may not be able to acheive orgasm from their hands only?? A pocket rocket..is their a specific one? or is that the brand name?

• recommendation of a sex toy for girlfriend 1/13/2007 7:23:51 AM
  
  Hey guys/gals, just wondering. My girlfriend has never been into masturbation of any kind, and wasn't comfortable touching herself until just recently, shes on holidays currently, and after a good session of masturbating...(she hasn't orgasmed from it yet) she said she thinks she would like a toy to try... Just want to know, what would be a good thing to start with for her? Something that would really get her feeling good, withuot freaking her out too much...there seems to be so many options..and we don't have a clue.. Thanks guys and gals..

• some mental problems 9/25/2002 9:43 AM
  
  Hey everyone. I thought Id respond to the latest posts by Londo_Cat and Dumblonde. " but the long and short of it is that you busted your cherry and now you "feel" obligated to have some kind of relationship with her...." "I didn't get that at all from him - they waited quite a awhile to do the deed, and have been together 8 months. It sounds to me like he cares very much for her, otherwise it wouldn't bother him so much." EXACTLY Dumblone. I care for her more than I can express and we waited 6 months before we did it. I knew about this info way before we did it. Londo: I would never talk about women like you do, let alone the one I am in love with and dont appreciate you calling her a bitch and such...S...

• some mental problems 8/21/2002 8:46 AM
  
  Mongosbull: Your right that there hasnt been a significant event that has changed her, but wouldn't the fact that we have been together 8 months now indicate a change.? All this stuff happened with her in 2000 so its 2 years ago now. As for change, she hasn't even had an official "break up" with this guy, which i think is a problem for me. In fact when he arrived back from overseas 3 or 4 months ago, he went to her place for dinner. That night at her apartment, she went to bed early and he stayed and talked to her roomate (bestfriend) and another guy. After 30 minutes he went into her room and started undressing for you know what(note: this guy is extremely confident). She was half asleep and told him she had a boyfriend and to g...

• some mental problems 8/15/2002 10:52 PM
  
  Mongosbull: I dont know what to say....this is probably the only negative response i have had so far, but Im not taking it personally at all and i am not offended or anything. I take your advice on board, and I fully realise that when u give your heart to someone that you leave yourslef open to getting hurt, but that is a risk I have decided to take. I have to point out that she was faithful with her first serious boyfriend for about 3 years, but it broke off when she got to curios about what else was out their and they grew apart. I would be interested in what everyone else has to say on Monosbull's point of view.

• some mental problems 8/12/2002 9:08 AM
  
  Thanks everyone-- Dumblonde, Hardware, Denverdon, Gattman. I appreciate so much, that you guys take some time to talk to me about this stuff, it is really helping me. I spent the weekend with her and thats why I havnt been here for a couple of days. We had a discussion about what Ive been thinking and how it had been bothering me. The thing is it's just not an issue for her because she knows it was just a phase like you said,that she went through and its not something she thinks about anymore. She wanted to make it clear to me that these guys had and have not got the best of her, especially the bastard ex. and that I shouldnt worry or get upset about it because she is way past over it. She said that there really isn't anything more she c...

• some mental problems 8/9/2002 8:08 PM
  
  Hardware: Thanks for your response. They are 2 really good points you have put forward there, sex is definately used as a tool for many different things these days....maybe it's because I didnt go through that stage that I am having trouble getting over it, because I'm sure as easy as it is to recognize, unless you have actually experienced it you can never fully understand or except it. And being young like you said Hardware is a big factor.... that's what she attributes alot of her past to, which I understand to a point. Do you think this is something which will leave my mind completely eventually? Or could it be something that will always come into my head now and then...I wish it never ever came into my head. By the way I hired Chasi...

• some mental problems 8/9/2002 4:11 AM
  
  Hey just continuing from before. So basically he just slept around with girls and encouraged her to do the same. I just dont like the fact that she slept with guys who meant nothing to her...and I hate thinking that this guy got the best of her by controlling her so much..because she is a very strong person mentally. She can tell me anything about her old ex that she was with for 2-3 years before this other guy and i dont get upset or get bad visuals of things because I know she was in love and that he had respect for her and treated her how she deserved to be treated. But the other stuff (1 nighters and such) is whats the problem for me. I get the actual visuals in my head of it happening with her (3/4 some, 1 nighters) and i just hate ...

• some mental problems 8/8/2002 11:07 PM
  
  Thanks so much Dumbblonde and Steph for your responses, I am already feeling a bit better about it with your reassuring words and will forever be in debt for your help. Honestly it means alot to me. Dumbblone: The guy that she was with is basically an ass. Ive never met him but when i say he had a strong hold over her i mean he was controlling and though he never forced her to do anything he had a strong influence. She said she slept with his friends earlier in the relationship, often to get his attention to say "hey look, Im having sex with your friends, look waht your missing out on sort of thing". They went overseas together for half a year...not together the whole time but meeting up with each other throughout the trip and h...

• some mental problems 8/8/2002 8:52 PM
  
  Planet Sex : sorry for the misunderstanding I should have made that clearer. Thanks for giving me a bit of insight into women lol. Denver Don : thanks for your thoughtful words but there is no way in hell that I would end it, as we have something extremely special going so I just have to get my head around it, i just have to figure out how. You said not to ask that stuff, but if your with a girl dont you think you should know about her past? I know its twisting the knife by asking more questions, so why am i so desperate to know everything? She didnt cheat on her boyfriend, he encouraged her to do it with his freinds, she once had a 3some and 4some with him, his best friend, and her bestfriend who she lives with now (though she only kisse...

• some mental problems 8/8/2002 4:06 AM
  
  Thanks everyone for responding. Dumbblond: Thanks for your encouraging words...your right there, this is my first relationship and i lost my virginity to her, we waited 6 months before we did it. I suppose it isnt so much the numbers but the circumstances that bother me. She was with a guy for a year or so and she had sex with 5 of his friends(all at different times), all one nighters in circumstances that get to me, like at a party going out to the car with a guy, or to get back at her boyfriend for something else he did. I dont mind if its dating a guy and then having sex with them but just one nighters all the time just gets to me. I have talked to her about it alot and i always want to know more details because i am a very curious g...

• some mental problems 8/7/2002 6:31 AM
  
  Hey everyone. Im really having some problems. I am having real trouble with my girlfreinds sexual past and cant get over it. We have been together 7 months now and extremely in love and this is the only negative thing in my head about us. She has been with 15 guys and some other pretty hardcore things as well... i really need some help to get it out of my head. Anyone some words to help would be appreciated.. ask anything u would like if u think it would help in helping me. thanks.

• Isis Nile 9/19/2000 11:06 PM
  
  Hey everybody, i was wondering if any of u know what Isis Nile is doing, does she do movies anymore? Anyone here know her or something by chance. thanks on my first post. p.s forgive present or future stupidity, i dont know that much bout porn.

• Isis Nile 9/19/2000 11:06 PM
  
  Hey everybody, i was wondering if any of u know what Isis Nile is doing, does she do movies anymore? Anyone here know her or something by chance. thanks on my first post. p.s forgive present or future stupidity, i dont know that much bout porn.