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• Why do gals date losers ???? 6/11/2004 7:33 AM
  
  There's an assumption that just because a girl is attractive that also means she's a decent person and should not be with a "loser". Plenty of attractive people are some of the most awful people you'd ever meet.

• Channeling your inner Brandon Iron . 6/8/2004 10:49 PM
  
  Go John Go!!!

• Channeling your inner Brandon Iron . 6/7/2004 7:52 AM
  
  A lot of the rough sex in porn movies turns me off because it is always the girl "getting" it. I find it odd, that for sex to be rough only the woman gets choked, gagged, slapped etc. And the only video's that show men being somewhat domianted are the s & m ones, which many men I've spoken too say are their least liked porn movies. It is only when I have seen rough sex movies where the performers have good chemistry and it is all shown in a very natural and positive way where I feel like I want to try things. The top male porn stars that are rough such as Brandon and Rocco have a way with women (from what I have seen of them) and know that if you're going to be hard with a woman, you really need to know how to please her right bac...

• The Porno Standard? Mind farts and porno directors 5/20/2004 8:33 AM
  
  This is a really interesting thread. I think Porn companies and directors seriously underestimate their audience. Just as in the mainstream movie industry I seek out films based on the director, actors and production company and I'm certainly not alone. These are the 3 basic things I look for. Positivity - This is the major reason that companies don't capture the large female market - time and time again we see terrible porn where it's just another excuse for misogyny and a negative represenatation of a women as a piece of meat rather than a sexual being in her own right. The uninspired set ups, the same positions, the "dismembered penis" POV filmmaking. When a man and a women are in a relationship and go to buy porn together, t...

• Can someone explain the difference? 5/18/2004 6:58 AM
  
  Anal sex feels different to vaginal sex because, as others have mentioned, it's a slower process as a woman's butt isn't naurally lubricated like her vagina. You have to "prepare" more for anal in that you need to be clean and empty and your partner needs to go slow and use lube. I've never had an orgasm during vaginal sex but I can have them every time with anal and in about 2 minutes as well! It's bizarre. That said anal isn't something you want to do every night though.

• Questions for porn fans and porn actresses 5/18/2004 6:18 AM
  
  Woops. Double Post. Edited by - kitty-kat on 5/18/2004 6:19:38 AM

• Questions for porn fans and porn actresses 5/18/2004 6:15 AM
  
  Huggins293 wrote: I have questions for both groups. To the women porn fans: 1. What turns you on about porn? Watching people have sex in itself is a turn on; specifically I am turned on by a intense performance (whether hardcore or soft)by performers who truly enjoy what they are doing and have a chemistry with each other. I also like movies by a director who shows sex and women in a positive light. 2. Can an ugly looking guy who performs good and is well endowed be a sexual turn on? Of course he can. Porn is a fantasy world so he would need to be attractive enough to make you want to watch him in action, but he doesn't need to be an adonis. 3. Can you be turned on by the very fact that what you are watching is taboo? Most definitl...

• No Cocks, Cunts, or Assholes 5/14/2004 9:04 AM
  
  I'd like to see people look each other in the eyes every now and then in a sex scene; this shows a passion and intensity for each other. A scene does nothing for me if the girl stares at the camera the whole time, or the guy and the girl or girl/girl only make faces when they think the camera is on them. If they are kind of spaced out the whole time it gets me worried that they're not enjoying it, which makes me paranoid I'm watching something that [in the most extreme case] a girl has been forced into. I'd also like to see girls and guys smile and laugh a lot more. As far as more paced scenes go my favourite is Belladonna's tease sequence in The Fashionista's. That was mind blowing. It was just cool. As I'm sure you all know! She walks in...

• Genuine Female Orgasms 5/11/2004 5:41 AM
  
  licker wrote: Wow, Kitty-kat! You're playing my song! Maybe you should direct some movies. I'd certainly enjoy the kind of thing you are talking about. Ellis, you might like to look at Cytherea's scene in Internal Cumbustion 3. Her orgasms certainly looked genuine to me. Ha, ha! In another life I would love to be a porn director. I have so many great ideas for scenes. Unfortunately I don't have much of a clue on the more technical aspects of filmmaking. :(

• Genuine Female Orgasms 5/9/2004 7:13 AM
  
  I think one of the reasosn that there aren't many female orgasms in porn is that most women need a little more time than a man to work up to orgasm, and with the way porn is shot (all the stoping and starting for photos and different positions etc) doesn't allow that time. Funny though, that there is always time for the "major" act of every porn scene - the male cum shot. It is difficult for a woman to achieve orgasm from penetration alone, but many directors don't like having much in the way (toys, hands whatever) when the in and out action is occuring. Pussy eating in porn is rarely depicted in the way that really makes girls come. Just sticking your tongue on a pussy like your licking a lemon doesn't an orgasm make. It'd be awe...

• How Deep Can It Go In? 5/8/2004 3:24 AM
  
  It's simple anatomy. The cervix is way too small for a penis to pass through. It only opens up during childbirth. You can push a penis in as deep and far as possible and it can only be acomodated in the vaginal canal. You cannot in any way feel a guy in "your stomach" - no matter how petite you are. The vagina is a pretty amazing muscle though, and as one of its main uses is to give birth; a large penis isn't really a problem as long as you're lubricated enough. A

• A stupid message 4/20/2004 7:49 AM
  
  As a woman I was very enticed into buying a copy of The Fashionistas after reading so many good reviews, but I was also a little hesitant due to the fact that it contains certain acts - face slapping, s&m etc, that put me off wtaching it. But boy am I glad I got a hold of a copy. I found this movie to be so amazing and mesmerising and totally blow away all my preconceptions. Although it contains rough, hardcore sex it never tries to make it all "circus act" like, and everything is so well done. It's very sophisticated and the psychology of the characters makes the sex scenes even more amazing. Also something that stood out a mile to me was that it all was done so positively. Even in the most intense segements never did I feel lik...

• Emo, Goth, and punk girls???? 3/21/2004 1:37 AM
  
  'Emo" stands for Emotional. And your explanation is pretty much right, although emo is usually applied more to boys than girls - i.e. indie boy bands or singers who write songs about the pain of relationships without the bullshit male bravado. Bright Eyes would be an example. This thread is putting naughty ideas into my head...as I am somewhat of an emo/indie (though not goth) girl. Anyone wanna pay my air fare to LA? DP Jones wrote: Ok,it's old school,and I know I mention her everytime,but someone post a damn pic of JUSTINE REAGE/CHANDRA VEGA!!! I'm all for it.But can someone please explain what an "emo"girl is?I still don't understand what emo music is supposed to be,a bunch of punk rockers who whine about relationships?

• Wo/men's health: a letter 2/27/2004 3:45 AM
  
  SNP - This kind of reasoning has been used many times before and unfortunately it really doesn't sustain any validity because men have never known any other treatment that what they've had - they don't have to continually fight for their gender equality. What YogGrrl is saying is it more the context of the wording in the brochures that worries her. "Normal" is a very scary word. Once again it is a whole other can of worms of self esteem and consumerism. They could have separate Men's Health Centers for testicular caner and prostate problems and erection difficulties. If they don't, it's because men are considered to be normal and standard, and women's issues are seen as some kind of outside-the-norm deal. Which again proves my poi...

• Women cumming on mens' faces 2/27/2004 2:44 AM
  
  Yay for you all :)

• A sluttish side? 2/14/2004 9:30 PM
  
  Clubber wrote: I can't say the female sex drive makes a great deal of sense to me. On the one hand we're led to believe that women are far less perverse then men, yet in my experience, the most popular female sexual fantasy is too be taken in the bath tub by a football team after the game - which is probably more nasty than any fantasy most men tend to day dream of. It's a pretty sad society which places mens sexuality ahead of womens to promote this view that women only enjoy vanilla sex. Women rarely admit they even masturbate where with guys it's a given. Unfortunately we are still stuck in a 1950's mentality. The female sex drive is usually more complicatd than a man's because it is hormonal - it is based on the body sending signals to...

• A sluttish side? 2/13/2004 5:46 AM
  
  Women are extremely sexual creatures but are constantly downplaying their sexuality for many different reasons - religion, peer group, family, race, fear of humilation, self esteem issues etc . I find it all quite wierd; sometimes I think men are really scared of women, scared of the power in our sexuality, scared of the juxtoposition of mother/woman (sexually liberated). I feel the word 'slut' has many different connotations but sadly they're usually quite negative. The last thing a women wants to feel is used. Or a man for that matter. Even if you're having hardcore/S&M sex the domination is not about "using" somebody as a fucktoy. It's rare for a women to open up sexually with someone she doesn't know well for fear of being lab...

• Gap-toothed Women in Porn! 2/1/2004 6:10 AM
  
  I like slight imperfections on people. And I have a kinship with those who have gapped teeth as I have perfect teeth aside from a slight chip in one of my front teeth. I'm certainly not a fan of buck teeth or anything, but there is something really sexy about a slight gap. It has almost become Belladonna's trademark. Even after all these years Madonna has never had her gap fixed. Imperfections give people more character, something which is often lacking on the porn world.

• Good-looking guys? 1/30/2004 10:36 PM
  
  Unfortunately all the good looking guys are only in gay porn. There are still some okay looking guys in hetro porn but they don't reach the standard of the gay studs. Jeff Stryker is one of the biggest gay stars ever and I think he also did some straight stuff, which may be worth checking out. He is so hot and he has a very, very large penis.

• Blow job rules 1/20/2004 5:42 AM
  
  The thing I find weird about these women vs men "jokes" are that the women side of things are always about respect, whereas men's are always about bringing it back to the 1950's. YAWN!