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• Deciding Not To Have Children? 3/7/2010 6:41:44 PM
  
  nietzsche wrote: Many think couples who do not have children lack purpose and meaning in their lives. I hate kids. I can do without purpose and meaning in my life. I love kids. Kids are awesome. In some ways I wish they never grow up.

• Deciding Not To Have Children? 3/5/2010 11:09:24 PM
  
  Oh, and imagine being a woman and being expected to have a "natural" desire to have children. I have had people tell me that I just don't realise I want children, and that when I get older those "instincts" will kick in. HI Goregirl, This sentiment is similar to many people who think a woman is either mentally disturbed or has daddy issues because she wants to fuck five guys at one time. They will claim that she is not authentically polyandorous. That is complete and utter garbage.

• Deciding Not To Have Children? 3/5/2010 11:05:37 PM
  
  HeyNow wrote: ^ A woman told be something like that once - I think she either came from a big family and/or had quite a few kids and when she found out my wife and I had no kids nor planned to she said something along the lines of who's gonna be your support system when you grow old. Isn't that a sad excuse to have kids?

• Deciding Not To Have Children? 2/27/2010 9:21:45 AM
  
  HeyNow wrote: Well, they potentially lack someone to take care of them when they are old and decrepit and can't blow the lawn and cut the snow (or know the difference) and drive themselves places. That and you miss out on parent-teacher conferences. Are you saying this is a reason to have kids?Actually, that thought never comes in my mind when I think about having kids.

• Deciding Not To Have Children? 2/27/2010 9:18:22 AM
  
  RandomPrecision wrote: Justice44 wrote: Many think couples who do not have children lack purpose and meaning in their lives. Do you agree or disagree with this statement? Please explain your position. Life is meaningless no matter what you do with it. The only purpose is to enjoy whatever you have while you can. Edited by - randomprecision on 2/27/2010 4:13:15 AM Hi Random, Those who believe in having kids contend that child less couples are selfish because they are not giving back to society. I do find their criticism very harsh. I simply can not comprehend why people think that having a child is the ONLY way to give back to society.

• Deciding Not To Have Children? 2/27/2010 9:12:31 AM
  
  smeghead wrote: That's one of the stupidest things i've ever read. Who says that the purpose of life is to raise children? What if you meet someone and you mutually agree that you don't want to spend the hundreds of thousands of your money in the child's lifetime, and huge levels of stress raising them, but instead would rather use that money to have a better quality of life with the person you love? Edited by - smeghead on 2/27/2010 12:35:34 AM I do agree with you, but on a previous thread, a poster implied that homosexuals lack purpose and meaning because they can not procreate.

• "Confessions of An Ivy League Pornographer" 2/12/2010 12:26:33 AM
  
  Savoy wrote: Did you "look inside"? I guess not. :) Jacco - I'm just an observer, but it seems that in Europe attitudes differ greatly. In the US we somehow manage to be incredibly juvenile and/or uptight about pornography. I think you may be right. For one, most American juvenile porn fans can not comprehend that generally porn stars do not treat sexuality in real life the same way they treat sex on film. If you are dating a porn star to fuck her the first night, you will probably get the same response of rejection that you would from normal" women. Can you explain to me why many juvenile men and some women can not grasp this concept?

• "Confessions of An Ivy League Pornographer" 2/12/2010 12:20:31 AM
  
  BlackSix wrote: Degradation and 'dirtiness' are another matter and that explains the obsession with facials and anal, but then the hardcore raincoater crowd and that particular brand of all-American sexual hypocrisy distorts the whole market. It is intesting that you mention facials. I for one CERTAINLY do not watch facials to degrade women. I never thought of facial as a means to humiliate a women. Unfortunately, many of my male counterparts think otherwise. Secondly, I don't see what's the fascination with anal? I don't mind seeing it in movies, but it is not a requirement and I could really care less if a woman does it.

• "Confessions of An Ivy League Pornographer" 2/12/2010 12:15:44 AM
  
  realtip wrote: ^The author admits that he entered the porn business because he wanted to "score with curvy women who didnt see a roll in the hay as too absurd a way to make their rent," which is the reason that mostly all other straight men decide to go into porn. Hi real, I understand were you are coming from but I just want to mention that many men have offered other reasons to go into porn which include sex. I also want to mention that the author's reasoning to enter porn really does not lead me to think he would be abusive. Heck a ton of guys like women but they are not into abusive porn. I really don't find this reasoning as a sign of him abusing women. Heck, that could be my reason to go into porn and I have complete disdai...

• Will a footjob give your cock at athlete foot. 2/11/2010 2:15:48 PM
  
  Master D wrote: I just met this white girl at school two weeks ago qand plan to go on a date in one week and she have nice feet. If I am planning to have sex with and give me a footjob but will i get athlete foot on my penis. I just want to ask you guy since you know all about this stuff. Dude, If your partner does not itch her feet a lot and cleans her feet, she proably does not have atheletes foot. Perhaps you should offer her a foot cleaning/foot rub and ask, "Have you ever heard of atheletes foot?" Secondly, ask if she has ever had it. Although it is possible, you are proably more likely to catch a STD from doing either vaginal or anal sex. I am curious how do you plan to introduce your desire for a footjob?

• Penny Flame's vh1 show 2/7/2010 11:01:57 AM
  
  cm37564 wrote: it's a reflection on how relationships work in society today they don't there's a lot of frustration especially for guys that's who those titles are made for Edited by - cm37564 on 2/7/2010 10:58:10 AM Do you think femdom titles reflect the same thing of frustration for women? Perhaps I am biased but I do not think misanderic(anti-man) views are as dominant in the viewers of femdom than the titles that we have discussed. I simply see femdom and dominatrix titles as sexual theater.

• Sexless Marriages and Swingers 2/6/2010 7:42:43 PM
  
  Justice44 wrote: Joey Starr wrote: Kimi Lixx wrote: Why is the latter viewed as cheapening marriage to a greater degree than the latter? Good question... Hi Joey. I just want to add another comment regarding sexless marriages. By using absolute logic, one should conclude that married couples are not sexually exclusive. Like swingers, they deviate from the monogamous ideal within marriage. The implicit ideal of marriage in American society is monogamy. Monogamy is not merely sexually abstaining from partners whom you are not married to. A monogamous marriage requires sex between the two married partners and abstinence from partners who are not in the marriage. Therefore, it is unfair for someone to view having a sexless marriage as a mora...

• Sexless Marriages and Swingers 2/6/2010 7:27:37 PM
  
  Joey Starr wrote: Kimi Lixx wrote: Why is the latter viewed as cheapening marriage to a greater degree than the latter? Good question... Hi Joey. I just want to add another comment regarding sexless marriages. By using absolute logic, one should conclude that married couples who decide NOT to have sex forever are not making sex more meaningful. In the context of making sex meaningful, how are they different than those who have sex outside of a serious relationship? Thus, it is unfair for someone view sexless couples as moral, but continue to view swinging couples as immoral. Like heteroseuxal and homosexual preferences, mongogammy should be promoted as a preference rather than an universal moral standard.

• G/G porn is dead to me until i start getting what 2/3/2010 9:54:16 AM
  
  babby wrote: Nonesense Justice44.there is a big market for the rough sex kind of porn. like some have said in this thread. the directors could care less what we rough G/G fans think. they are going to shoot what they want too.(soft G/G and Anal)that all they know. the market is flooded with this stuff.Justice44, just because directors wont shoot rough sex fetish G/G. does not mean there is not a market for it.you are wrong! I am not saying there is not a market for it. I am simply saying rough sex is not mainstream. Do you think rough sex appeals to the vast majority of adult viewers?

• How do I get involved in the industry 2/2/2010 12:20:10 AM
  
  Clam Digger wrote: ^that's because most of the porn posters are latently gay and hate women. This same attitude extends to large numbers of producers and directors. And folks wonder why sales are down. Edited by - Clam Digger on 6/7/2009 2:31:28 PM Clam digger, Please correct me if I am wrong but are you assertign that male homoexuality is motivating misogynistic images of women in porn. If this is your assertion I would contend that I would associate misogyny more with hetero men than gay men. I don't get how homoseuxality is part of the misogynistic images of women in porn? The gays I have seen are best friends with women. Again, if I am misreading your comment, please let me know.

• How do I get involved in the industry 2/2/2010 12:09:51 AM
  
  Clam Digger wrote: Yeah I read it and the fact that much of it has become a commodity, pretty much makes my point. Any asshole can shoot porn. I agree. Any clown is shooting porn. For example, I look for anything that Manuel Ferrara is in or directs, because there is no question that he loves women and can bring out the best of any woman that shares a scene with him. I think I have seen him in action. What do you think about Randy Spears? I will repeat my supposition, most the porn shot today is shot and produced by people with demonstrative issues relating to their value of women and eroticism. After reading some of your post, I see where you are coming from. The bottom line is this. Misogny in porn I take far more seriously than any thea...

• Scenes with REALLY filthy talk? 2/2/2010 12:02:16 AM
  
  Clam Digger wrote: I'm not sure about dirty talk. I'm more into "erotic talk", There is only so much one can take of words like."shit", "pussy", "cunt", "cock" etc., gasped as though they were part of some mantra found in the Kama Sutra. I'm more into stuff like you hear between Penny Flame and Manuel in "Sports Fucking 5" when she tells him, and I paraphrase, that she wants to take in home so that they can fuck all day, every day....that finished men right on the spot. Another one that still rings in my ears, I'm a bit embarrassed so say, was with Ed Powers, Guage and her former suit case pimp, who due to my poor memory, I'll just call him Moron. Anyway, Ed gets tired of being in...

• Queen of the cowgirl position 2/1/2010 11:57:56 PM
  
  Clam Digger wrote: I think most girls shine in cg. They get to fuck at their pace. If they want fast & hard, they do it. If they want a slow grind, they do it. Which is why most girls like it. I really think it's hot when the girls lean way forward, dragging their clits along the guy's pubic bone. Face sitting isn't done enough, IMHO. I concur!

• Just introducing myself (Bangbros) 2/1/2010 11:47:41 PM
  
  dboy2612 wrote: Ramsey wrote: ctcoquito wrote: Is anyone else getting annoyed with the really up close, oddly positioned camera angles that has been being used in majority of their videos. Perfect example is today's update on Milflessons. They stay zoomed in for a too much time. A lot of directors are shooting the action too close. I hate hate that because I want to see the full body shot from head to toe! I fuckin HATE these close ups too. I hope bangbros could stop thinking people like to watch these semi-POV scenes and start getting better shots (more ass shots of the girls). I also hate anything Preston Parker shoots and I can't wait until he leaves the company, or better yet the industry. He gets the best looking girls on his videos f...

• Sexless Marriages and Swingers 2/1/2010 11:43:55 PM
  
  BYOB_Kenobi wrote: I've always wondered, if 10% of adults are asexual, what is an asexual marriage like, if one partner is asexual and the other has normal or above average sex drive? Do these couples make deals? I don't know. I guess it depends on the marriage. If both patners are asexual, they simply do not have sex.