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• Where it just gets too rough / too much... 1/31/2014 4:55:18 AM
  
  If you're emotion wasn't involved you wouldn't be getting personal in each post. I've very clearly stated that I don't believe this to be a majority so not rampant. I have also clearly stated that I understand that even a minority is enough to justify improving an industry I enjoy and support. I have continually tried to provide a balanced view and say that I am here to discuss constructively and ration my own emotion, but every response from you has in effect accused me of generalising the whole industry whilst casting me as a villain. You clearly don't read my posts properly and you leap to the emotionally charged defence of an industry assuming that I am a porn hater I came here because I found a few scenes difficult wanting to discuss w...

• Where it just gets too rough / too much... 1/30/2014 6:50:37 PM
  
  MutantMo wrote: Where are the parents in this example you provided of a child being beaten in public? The first thing I would do in this theoretical yet terrible situation is question where the parents are. The second thing I would do is not get involved. Bodily harm is a broad term and protection against it in the form of STDs is a great start by the industry. Anal tearing can be treated by the very same medical professionals who are involved in treating sexual diseases. Testing will become more stringent due to these terrible outbreaks brought on by transient outsiders in the industry. When you are a professional you deal with the hazards of your chosen career. To undermine a craft in the name of shining morality is just as bad as your i...

• Where it just gets too rough / too much... 1/27/2014 7:26:13 PM
  
  Thanks for the response. I think it's a healthy debate and will continue to be so for a lot of people. In terms of my last comment and it's violent nature, bear in mind the context of it. I am here to rationalise that emotion exactly as I said following it. My point there is essentially about my reaction to how we mistreat others. Once again, context - the mistreatment being unwelcome and not wanted or beyond expectations. Bullying and abuse. I do agree with you to an extent, but what I am also saying is that some scenes are questionable in terms of safe word and the "simulation" and that is difficult for some of us to accept. We all have varying levels with what will shock and over time we have become de-sensitised as porn has be...

• Where it just gets too rough / too much... 1/26/2014 7:47:37 PM
  
  I've thought about this long and hard and I decided that maybe, just maybe this was either a one-off or me being too sensitive. I would hope that this scene wasn't as bad as it may seem as they interview her at the end and she's supposedly fine. However, I've watched a fair amount of rough sex scenes since then and I have either found my personal limit on what I can comfortable watch and what I certainly don't like. It's hard not to stumble across something difficult to watch as most, if not all, scenes contain a rough element to them. The face gag and the slapping is seemingly pedestrian to porn - almost like the way anal is standard now. However, as porn evolves we are seeing more and more girls being pushed beyond their limits. I recentl...

• Where it just gets too rough / too much... 8/21/2013 5:28:11 PM
  
  Apologies jumping into what may seem like an age old topic, but I've lurked here long enough and read quite a number of threads of the subject of 'rough sex'. As with the many discussions and the more commonly themed porn now (bar some more interesting styles, i.e. Manuel Ferrari) I really enjoy watching rough sex and have always thought I tended to the more extreme stuff. Every now and then I wince a bit and bar the now well known Cody Lane scene I cope with it all. That was until I watched a scene from a what seems to have been a fairly young and newer Spanish outfit CumExtreme who claim to be providing "more than rough sex". The scene I watched and has been mentioned, but not discussed, involved a British girl Billy Jo who quit...