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• Sex Toy Sales? 8/8/2007 2:09:09 AM
  
  The ingredients are: "Water, Octyl Palmitate from Coconut Oil, Almond Oil, Steary/Cetyl Emulsifiers, Aloe Vera, Vitamin E, Methyl/Propyl Paraben, Germal, Carbomer 940, TEA" It isn't latex-condom safe, but I don't know about silicone toys. - Jesse

• More and more mainstream girls doing BDSM 8/7/2007 9:22:20 PM
  
  >BDSM is really best left to >people who are really, undeniably >into it. And I'm not sure how you'd >know with a mainstream porn actress. Absolutely. Anyone who is into it can spot fakery a mile away, too. I can tell from watching the force of a swing and listening to the sound of the pop on the butt if the audio has been edited, even.

• Selling Magazines 8/7/2007 9:07:42 PM
  
  The previous poster is right - eBay is not only your best shot, but really your only likely shot, especially if you want to sell them as one big batch. You can't use PayPal, but you can wait until the check clears before mailing them. I have known a few people who have sold porn collections to used book stores, but it can be hard to find ones that will buy them. I have twice bought whole collections of Leather/BDSM magazines from a gay leather store, but they were acting more as brokers, rather than resellers.

• qs about gay conventions in Bi porn 8/7/2007 9:03 PM
  
  My beef with bi porn is that the guy are almost always twinks. I would like to see some with normal guys or bodybuilder types - anything but the same old "two twinks and a girl" thing.

• debbie does dallas again 8/7/2007 4:24:08 PM
  
  I get irritated by attempts to remake classic movies. I watched the series on cable of the making of the new versions, and could tell that I wouldn't like them. That bitchy Vivid girl who was always late to the set (forget her name) irritated the hell out of me, as did most of the other primadonna shit from the female stars.

• More and more mainstream girls doing BDSM 8/7/2007 2:41:59 PM
  
  Most BDSM porn bores me, and I'm very into it in real life (active for 11 years in my local community, have had my current sub for 7 years, have taught classes at conventions, etc.). For real-life practitioners, much of the thrill of watching others do BDSM stuff lies in the interactions between the participants. I have seen real-life play where the woman is very attractive, but boring to watch. I have also seen scenes where the woman is not attractive at all, but her responses are VERY interesting. Mainstream porn stars who do BDSM scenes usually treat them like regular porn. It's easy to spot the faked responses. The things they are doing may look extreme to those who aren't into BDSM, but are often remarkably tame if you know much about ...

• Online Sex Sites 8/7/2007 2:20:11 PM
  
  I know a lot of folks in the BDSM/fetish communities who have had good luck on alt.com, AFF, etc. As someone else said, though, a lot depends on what you're looking for and what you have to offer.

• Sex Toy Sales? 8/7/2007 2:18:54 PM
  
  Stroke 29 is a masturbation cream for men (you aren't supposed to use it internally). It is expensive, but is the best that I have ever used. It beats Astroglide and other lubes hands-down. Gun Oil is supposed to be just as good, but I haven't tried it yet.

• Titty bars 8/7/2007 2:14:26 PM
  
  I've never been into them. When I was younger, I liked seeing the naked women, but the constant pressure to spend more and more money ruined the experience for me. Now that I'm older (40), simple nudity doesn't do much for me anymore. I can see tons of naked women for free at dungeon parties, and occasionally go to swinger parties, too (my gf and I will soft-swing, but not have sex with others). The women at these places WANT to be naked, get turned on by it, don't expect any money, and want to be watched. If you know them, you can do a lot of touching, too. I have seen most of my female friends naked, and have watched a good number of them have sex. You can watch them orgasm and have sex for free - why pay to watch a surgery queen dance b...

• For how long should a pussy be eaten? 8/7/2007 2:10:17 PM
  
  It depends on the woman. Some orgasm easily from oral sex. Some don't. Some want you to stop as soon as they orgasm. Some want you to keep going. The longest I have done it (without stopping) is 3 hours, on my ex-wife. I was hurting for days afterwards, but it was fun. My gf likes it for about 10-20 minutes, then starts to feel chapped.

• I just don't know what to say to a girl... 8/7/2007 2:03:42 PM
  
  You need to get comfortable talking to women. You need to meet a lot of them to do that. Work hard to expand your social circle. Smile and chat to anyone you meet - het, gay, male, female, whatver - even if it's a little old lady in line at the grocery store. There are two reasons for that: 1) you never know which ones will invite you to a party or introduce you to their sister/granddaughter/etc., and 2) you'll get used to making small talk. I was incredibly shy for the first half of my life. I had to consciously learn to make small talk and talk to women. I did the things I listed above, and made a rule - I would not turn down a single invitation to any social event/party/outing, no matter how much I DIDN'T want to go to it. I also forced ...

• mental downer after orgasm 8/7/2007 1:52:50 PM
  
  That's normal. Most men (though certainly not all) lose interest in further sex play - and often get sleepy - following sex. Different body chemicals get released in men after orgasm that help promote this.

• Which Vagina Is the Best? Help! 8/7/2007 1:34:52 PM
  
  "This question is directed to those of you that purchase these sex toys in the mail to fuck. Have you ever considered getting a real woman? Or do you prefer the orifice alone?" My gf and I have been together for 7 years, and she is up for just about anything sexually. We are both active in our local BDSM communities, as well. She is always ready to have sex. To me, masturbation is different than sex with another person. It is a personal thing you do along with your fantasies. There are times that I want to have sex with my gf, and other times that I like to masturbate. She's not always around when I'm horny, either. Sex toys provide different sensations than a hand or vibrator does.