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• Circumcised as an adult? 11/23/2013 4:54:04 PM
  
  Cripes, there is so much controversy about circumcision these days, especially since the studies came out showing that it reduces the risk of certain STDs (including HPV and HIV). I've noticed that the vast majority of the people in the "Intactavist" movement are either women or men snipped at birth. I figure the only folks who can tell us if it has an impact on sexual pleasure and performance are guys who had it done as adults. Have any of you lads had your penis pruned as an adult? If so, what difference (if any) is there in sexual pleasure between the penis with or without a foreskin?

• Can a porn star be a good life partner? 11/23/2013 4:11:46 PM
  
  My wife wasn't a porn *star* exactly, but she worked in the industry and appeared in a few movies, what with her being the sexually adventurous type (this was back in the 80's). We've been married for 12 years and it has been GREAT. We have one kid and another on the way and our relationship just keeps getting better and better. The fact that she was in porn never put me off. I still remember when we were on our second date and she mentioned it, just to get it out there, and how relieved she was that it was a non-issue for me. I was just curious! "Is that as much fun as it looks?" I asked. "Well, it's sex," she replied, "Even when it's bad it's still pretty good." ;)

• How good is a Fleshlight really? 11/23/2013 4:05:15 PM
  
  I bought one on a whim recently and really quite enjoy it. For me, it's like using sex toys in the bedroom with my wife - it's not something for every time, but it makes for a nice change of pace. I have the Nina Hartley model which feels great... but tastes terrible. ;)

• Would you marry a pornstar? 11/2/2009 8:36:25 PM
  
  An active porn star? No way. I have yet to see a non-mongamous relationship go the distance. A former porn star? Absolutely. It would be a non-issue. I was in a relationship several years back with someone who, while never exactly a "porn star", had been in a couple of porn films. She had been working behind the scenes as a writer in the adult periodical industry and, when offered small parts in a pair of films, jumped at the chance for the sake of curiosity and adventure. Although the relationship fizzled ultimately (we're still great friends), her past in porn had nothing to do with it.

• sex with someone you don't fancy 11/2/2009 3:45:12 PM
  
  I lost my virginity in this manner - a one night stand with someone I didn't care for - and it was truly awful! From that day forward I promised myself I'd never go there again and have been good to that promise. I don't have to be in love with someone to have sex with them, but I do have to like and care for them. Sex is many different things to different people. For me, it's about connecting with someone and, just personally, I don't want to connect with someone I don't care about.