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• Women who don't like receiving oral??? 4/3/2005 9:43 PM
  
  Yeah technically it could possibly be dangerous to blow in there but it's highly unlikely to cause a problem. <link> No one has ever tried that one on me though it certainly doesn't sound appealing. I like oral sex but I kind of understand why some women don't. Lots of women are self conscious about their vaginal area and men constantly spreading that rumor about women smelling/tasting/looking bad does not help. As far as the guilt thing, I think the act of performing oral sex is easier on the conscience then receiving it. The sin of giving oral sex is slightly vindicated by the fact that you are doing it for someone else's pleasure, whereas in receiving you are just a wanton hedonist lying their and making a man perform for you. No...

• Am I spoilt or just a total bastard ? 9/11/2004 10:56 AM
  
  Renee wrote: Rabbits bite each other during sexual congress. Sometimes they even pull out clumps of fur, leaving visible bald spots. I had to warn you. Horses too, the male will dig his teeth into the neck of the mare he is mounting, sometimes resulting in serious injury. But its pretty rare for the female to hurt the male. Only insects and us people do that I suppose.

• Am I spoilt or just a total bastard ? 9/11/2004 7:47 AM
  
  As to the biting thing, my last boyfriend did that alot for about the first two weeks we were dating (bit hard, left little lovebite marks in visible places, etc.) and then it tapered off. I suspect it may taper off for you when she feels like you are truly hers. Biting is pretty primal and what Croy said about her marking her territory sounds right. She wants you to be hers and found a visible way to send that message. Just my two cents

• whats my name: Alicia OR Martina OR Vera ... 9/7/2004 2:46 PM
  
  Looks a bit like this <link>

• Are Orgasms Neccesary? 9/4/2004 4:27 PM
  
  According to the <link> continence is nearly the same as abstinence, with some modifications. But I believe if don juan's post channels any religious symbolism it is more Buddhist, which uses elements of sexual regulation in meditation and to achieve greater wisdom. But its more of a personal thing rather than an attempt to achieve a greater connection with a partner. I am reading a book by the Dalai Lama that addresses the subject in passing. I can't say what its like for men, but the only time I feel sullen and depressed after an orgasm is when I do it alone. It doesn't happen that often, but never with a partner.

• Oral sex and cancer 8/13/2004 8:54 PM
  
  According to a recent study (ok I am copying this from Glamour magazine so take it with a grain of salt) &quot;The actual number of mouth cancers linked to oral sex is minute: Less than one percent of oral cancers are likely caused by HPV,&quot; says Kenneth Nuller M.D, professor and chairman of the department of obstetrics and gynecology at the Tufts New England Medican Center in Boston. They suggest, if you are worried about oral cancer, avoiding smoking instead.

• People getting in the way of possible sex! 8/3/2004 2:49 AM
  
  I just have to say, sometimes its on purpose. If I go to a club its usually with some male friends as well as female friends. The purpose of bringing the guys is often to get in the way of any guy that is paying too much unwanted attention. We even have a signal worked out. So don't always blame the guy. It's possible the girl just doesn't want to sleep with you.

• It happened... 7/22/2004 8:14 AM
  
  That was YOU? Heh just kidding. But I should really start a book about all the crazy sex stories I hear at UCLA. Chico Wang wrote: NOT FOR THE SQUEAMISH!!! The last time I had anal sex was at UCLA some time ago. In my dorm room. One saturday night, I decide to slip it in. We were both drunk like pigs and we had no protection. The girl was as stupid as a mule. I had the IQ of a pebble. So I was afraid of pregnancy. Mind you, the lights are off. I slip it in. Then the odor hits. So defense mechanisms strike as I breathe out of my mouth hoping I don't get infected with vapors. I pull out for a moment and something hits me all over the place. The face, the chest, the belly, even the toenails. Apparently, a stream of shit jutted out of her ass...

• Women - Pain with Sex 7/17/2004 7:52 PM
  
  -lunacy- wrote: Bum deal Arethusa but I'm happy you finally have validation. Being told it's in your head must have been maddening. Depressing, to say the least. But knowing what it is doesn't exactly make me happy either since its not something that can cleared up with antibiotics or other pills. It's still fairly unresearched. But I have lots of time to wait for medical science to catch up with me.

• Women - Pain with Sex 7/15/2004 3:22 PM
  
  DD - treatment options are somewhat limited but I am optimistic that they will come up with something soon. The main treatment is cortisone creams but those have their own set of problems. I'm not rushing into anything. DB - Sweden is awesome if somewhat rainy (worst summer weather in 75 years apparently) but I love studying here. With the current political climate in the U.S I am happy to be in a country that is so peaceful and egalitarian. But I will be making the trek up to the embassy in Stockholm to vote in the November election.

• Women - Pain with Sex 7/15/2004 9:33 AM
  
  Update to an old thread... I don't know if this is a medical condition that has ever been addressed in this forum but I was recently diagnosed with vestibulitis as the source of the pain (which, a year later, despite some improvement has never gone away). Vestibulitis is a medical condition in which the tissue around the entrance of the vagina is chronically inflamed. It varies in its degrees of severity - sometimes it's terrible, sometimes it's barely noticeable. My point in bringing this up is that it has been misdiagnosed as a psychological problem for many years and doctors are just beginning to realize how common it is in women. So if any woman is experiencing symptoms similar to the ones I described earlier in this thread I would en...

• Kiss Question 7/7/2004 3:53 PM
  
  I've been told I am a good kisser but that I don't do it enough. I don't like deep kissing and I hate slobbering. I get claustrophobic if the person I'm kissing breathes too heavily all over me - all I can think about at that point is that I'm inhaling their carbon dioxide and that can't possibly be healthy. Not exactly romantic. I like soft gentle kisses with minimal tongue. I usually keep my eyes open. I prefer hugs/holding/being held to kisses.

• Is there a difference ? 3/28/2004 6:12 PM
  
  GaySatyr wrote: Is isn't a lack of respect. Honest. It's a lack of personal experience. I suspect that with gender reversed, my comment would apply to women. Although I'm sure there are a few very talented exceptions among women (such as yourself), given that a man just &quot;knows&quot; what feels good, gay men have a [third] leg up on women with that particular exercise. ~ GaySatyr That's true you fellas do have the advantage of knowing how it feels. You should write a book - I know I'd buy it! I'm always looking for good oral tips.

• Is there a difference ? 3/28/2004 9:29 AM
  
  Ouch, Satyr I feel compelled to stand up for the fellating skills of my gender! We've had just as long to perfect the art as you gay men out there so all due respect please! I can't imagine that race in itself would make a huge difference. I think the sexual outlook of the person giving the blowjob makes the most difference.

• Question about 2 hot Nastymodeling girls 3/22/2004 9:15 PM
  
  Probably stands for interracial.

• Oral sex leads to mouth cancer? 2/26/2004 2:37 PM
  
  There are about 100 different types of HPV. One kind leads to genital warts, the most common STD in America. There are plenty of types that are considered low risk i.e not likely to cause any cellular changes. But having certain strains of HPV causes a very large increase of the risk of cervical cancer in women. If you have a certain strain and someone performs oral sex on you, yeah, I could see that increasing the chance of their contracting oral cancer. But like the study suggests, it's unlikely to do it unaided by the effects of other carcinogens like cigarettes. This isn't putting me off blowjobs. Smoking, maybe.

• Oral sex leads to mouth cancer? 2/25/2004 10:29 PM
  
  Only if you have HPV.

• Implants? Who has them? 2/18/2004 12:55 PM
  
  In all honesty, I do love my body. I think it's great and so does my boyfriend so he's not the one putting these ideas in my head. Implants are something I'm just sort of toying with right now but in the future, who knows. I like big breasts (there, I admitted it) and I think I'd look better with C's but if the cost to my health is too high I won't go through with it. Maybe in 10 years they'll have better technology in this area and I can give them to myself as a 30th birthday present. Boost, why not make an appointment with a reputable surgeon for an initial consultation? I think he or she could probably give you a better idea of the risks and benefits of implants.

• Implants? Who has them? 2/17/2004 9:03 PM
  
  Heaven wrote: I think if she she gets them, she should wait til after pregnancy because her breasts will change. I'm built similar to your girl. I'm asian, 5'2&quot;, 117 lb. Before I had a baby my boobs were a 32B/34A, and now after having a child, I'm a 34C. Remind me to have a kid one of these days Just kidding. I am contemplating implants as well (5'3 105 32b) in a few years but side effects scare me. My plan in the meantime is to gain a bunch of weight and see if it goes to my chest.

• Cottage Cheese / Yeast Infection 2/12/2004 7:49 PM
  
  I've found some kinds of lube foam a little during vigorous sex as well.