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• G spot toy suggestions? 12/21/2005 8:56:29 AM
  
  one I have is too hard .....one is too soft in times like these, i reccomend silicone. <link> from tantus might work for you.

• Anal Butt Plug Question 12/15/2005 2:51:33 PM
  
  The first thing that came to mind when you said you wanted something not too big going in but would stay in place is maybe a buttplug that inflates. The <link> vibrates and you could probably pump it up a little bit inside her to keep it from popping out. Edited by - alisonb on 12/15/2005 2:51:58 PM

• Recomendations - Strap-ons ?? 11/28/2005 9:05:39 AM
  
  I think Sportsheets has done some really good things with affordable/comfortable strap ons. If you just want a harness, I'd reccomend checking out the <link> ...it comes with different sized O rings so that you can use any size dildo you want and the straps are adjustable, which is very helpful for a good fit.

• Sex Toy Talk 7/25/2005 9:45 AM
  
  wow, i had no idea either...very cool. are there eventually going to be message boards on that site?

• Blow job lube 6/13/2005 11:44 AM
  
  ID and Wet both have lines of water-based flavored lubes. And Topco just came out with one that looks promising called Sex Tarts.

• butt plug choice... 6/10/2005 9:51 AM
  
  odelay, the doc johnson medium isn't a bad choice if you're experimenting with sizes. it's relatively cheap and if you get one of the ones made of vinyl (like [ invalid url ]), it's pretty easy to clean and probably won't degrade too quickly. if you want cheap *and* a little more quality in the same basic shape, let me reccomend [ invalid url ]. hustler partnered with topco to make silicone toys in pretty standard shapes. i think they're a pretty good value.

• Anything Similiar To ID Glide? 6/2/2005 9:01 AM
  
  I don't know if there's anything that'll match *exactly* but you might want to try Wet.

• butt plugs used in porn 5/16/2005 9:32 AM
  
  They use rubber rather than metal because rubber butt plugs are cheap and metal ones are not.

• is this a good male butt plug? 5/9/2005 9:29 AM
  
  I find that glass and metal tend to be pretty similar in every way but weight. If you want a heavier buttplug, go with metal. If you're just looking for smoothness, quality, and consistency, glass is a fine option. Take GaySatyr's advice and get Pyrex though.

• Cockrings? 4/7/2005 9:00 AM
  
  monteman - please be careful about starting out with a metal cock ring. if you need to take it off in a hurry (you're only really supposed to use them for short periods of time - 15 to 20 min), you're kinda screwed.

• Ass to pussy action 2/15/2005 9:39 AM
  
  from the avn blog: A certain porn star went to AIM today and discovered she had a bacterial infection thanks to ass-to-pussy sex. So much for sexy results tonight with that boyfriend of hers. Yeah, he's gonna be happy. She's pretty thrilled, too. Happy Valentine's Day. - acme andersson

• Ass to pussy action 2/11/2005 9:22 AM
  
  Yep. Stuff that's in the ass shouldn't go right into the pussy. That's how you get infections.

• lube 2/9/2005 9:47 AM
  
  a lot of times, lubes labeled as anal have a numbing agent like benzocaine in them, so be careful to read the ingredients. if you're looking for a good thick lube that doesn't have ASS LUBE written on it in huge letters, you might want to check out <link> . it's more expensive than KY, but you get what you pay for with lube in my experience.

• Commentary: Porn does anything but objectify women 2/4/2005 9:33 AM
  
  Renee wrote: How do you know that Prof. Sun is a follower of Dworkin? This is the question I've had all along. A lot of people (on different blogs/boards/etc) are making assumptions about Dr. Sun's beliefs based on what I'd argue is a very grey-area argument. To be honest, I can't tell if she's really anti-porn or just wants to make a real critique of it outside the censorship debate. The only other article I can find that she's (co-)written is several years old and on the topic of gender roles in new forms of pedagogy. It's sad that people have such a knee-jerk reaction to what is, as Lindi said, a pretty honest piece. Sure, she made some generalizations that I thought were troubling. But she also brought up some points that few, if an...

• Commentary: Porn does anything but objectify women 2/1/2005 8:30 AM
  
  lindi wrote: And I also want to add that, having talked to a number of guys, even virgins, who watch a lot of porn and have had their impressions of sexuality influenced by it -- porn is not always 'good for' guys who are watching a lot of it. lindi, you put it perfectly...and i think questioning what porn does to people without necessarily questioning the right to look at it is valid. in addition to the effect it has on the way men view women, i wonder whether it affects the way women view themselves. a lot of lip service is given to the unrealistic images of women in &quot;cosmopolitan&quot; and &quot;glamour&quot; and the like and i wonder whether the amazingly thin women who seem to make up the majority of porn actresses have the sam...

• Commentary: Porn does anything but objectify women 1/31/2005 9:01 AM
  
  there's an interesting commentary on alternet that seems a little more thoughtful and certainly better argued. <link> i'm interested to hear what others think of it.

• Commentary: Porn does anything but objectify women 1/28/2005 9:04 AM
  
  boss_hog wrote: Can a woman objectify a woman? why not? there's nothing inherent in being a woman that exempts you from being able to objectify anyone you want to.

• Commentary: Porn does anything but objectify women 1/27/2005 8:54 AM
  
  The article is sloppy journalism at best. I'm glad to see that other women agree with me about this. The article kept getting posted in blogs and hailed as a great example of a woman who is porn-positive, but I felt like all I walked away from her article with was her assertion that women don't watch porn (or admit it if they do) and that feminists are bad and hate porn. The idea that there is a feminist &quot;party line&quot; on porn that we all uphold irritates me to no end.

• Durability of Vaginas (Toys) 1/26/2005 9:20 AM
  
  I've seen a lot of fake vaginas since I took over the Novelty division at Adult DVD Empire and my observations are as follows: Newer materials like UR3 (Doc Johnson) and Futurotic (California Exotic) are softer and feel more realistic than older stuff. A good example of this is the two models of Janine's vagina. One is UR3 ( <link> ) and one is made of an older material called Softouch ( <link> ). But with softness and realism comes a tendency to rip if you use it a lot. The best solution for that seems to be to use a lot of water-based lube. (Silicone lubes break down the realistic skin materials) As for reccomendations, it all depends on how much you want to spend and who you like. In the upper eschelon of vaginas, my personal pick is...

• Strap-on with 2 cocks 12/31/2004 3:18 PM
  
  Doc Johnson makes a strap on dildo with two cocks on it that works with their VAC-U-LOCK system. I also believe I've seen strap on harnesses with slots for two dildos in the past...it's rare but it exists.